Can you, for those who don't know you already,
tell something about yourself and how you became an author?
This is going to
sound cliché but I always wanted to be an author. At an early age,
our parents set us up for success in anything we put our mind to. My
parents did not allow us to quit at anything unless it was
detrimental to our health and well-being. Writing and reading are two
of my passions (teaching is a third) and it was always something I
practiced at home and in school. I was very much that
child who always
had a book in my hand. Most students
get reminded to stop talking during lessons, I was told to stop
reading. There were times when I just couldn’t put the book down so
I’d read during math class or science class or even at lunch! But
I’m getting off track, haha! I really knew I wanted to become an
author in 8th
grade. We had to write short stories for class and my 8th
grade English teacher told me that I should publish one day. This was
something that was reiterated to me in 9th,
again in 10th,
and all throughout my high school and college career. When I was 21,
I took the leap of faith and did it! So to all of my teachers who
told me to, THANK YOU!
What is something unique/quirky about
you?
What isn’t
quirky about me? I’m the typical tom boy who is one of the boys and
can dress up when she wants to but I’m also an anomaly. I am very
much introverted and have really bad social anxiety but once I get to
know someone, I can be extroverted. I love learning and can always be
found doing research, reading old textbooks to find answers, and
playing trivia games. I own almost every kind of trivia game there
is: Game of Knowledge, Jeopardy, Who Wants to be a Millionaire, 1 VS
100, Trivial Pursuit (Genius & Family edition), the list goes on
and on. I also march to the beat of my own drum and I’m very
independent. I love to sing in the shower. I can recite most of the
lines from Titanic, Aladdin, Beauty and the Beast, and Kuch Kuch Hota
Hai (a Bollywood film). I know every Backstreet Boy song, every
Backstreet Boy member and their birthday (though I’m rusty on the
years). I also know every Taylor Swift song. TEST ME ON THESE! I DARE
YOU! LOL.
Tell us something really interesting
that's happened to you!
This is my
favorite story EVER! Okay, so back in 2016, I went to my first ever
New York Comic Con with my then-boyfriend, now-husband and we were
like 2 minutes late for Tom Mison’s signing. For those of you who
do not know who Tom Mison is, he played Ichabod Crane on Fox’s
primetime show, Sleepy Hollow (Netflix needs to reboot it!). He was
literally packing up. Well, Tom saw the disappointed look my face and
called me over to him. I ended up talking to him for about 5 minutes,
got a TERRIBLE photo taken with him, but the experience was
everything!
The best part was my husband could not
work my iPhone camera (he has an
Android) and at the same time Tom & I were like “Oh, for the
love of god, Matthew!” This was literally, the best day ever!
What are some of your pet peeves?
I really dislike
when people talk over me when I’m trying to get my point across
because I’m so introverted; so if I’m actually answering the
question or contributing something it’s because I feel it’s
important. I also dislike when people don’t get straight to the
point; tell me what you mean in as little words as possible. Don’t
fluff it up. Don’t beat around the bush. Just tell me. I also hate,
hate, hate name-calling in arguments
whether it’s a friend or my significant other. I don’t ever talk
to people like that and I refuse to be talked to like that.
Where were you born/grew up at?
I was born and
raised in Greenpoint, Brooklyn, New York. If you don’t know where
it is, it’s literally next door to Williamsburg and McCarren park
separates the two. If you do know where it is can someone please send
me PETER PAN’S DONUTS?!
If you knew you'd die tomorrow, how
would you spend your last day?
With my family.
Tomorrow is not promised so I try to live every day like it might be
my last, which is partly why (even though I’m married) I still live
at home. I would hate to spend the whole day in my house and not see
my parents ever again. They mean the whole world to me. Family is
everything to me.
Who is your hero and why?
My father is my
hero because he came to America with nothing in his pocket and really
taught us what it was like to live life and take risks. If it weren’t
for my father, I wouldn’t do half the things I am doing in life.
Who I am is because of him. When I was about 12, my mom had to stop
working to take care of me so my father was our only source of
income. He worked so hard to make a living: barely took off from work
even in the snow and even when he was in pain. If it wasn’t for him
sacrificing his well-being for us, I would have never been able to
live my dream of going to college, being a writer, and teach as a
full-time job.
What kind of world ruler would you be?
A horrible one!
I get lost in my emotions and I’m introverted. To rule the world,
you would have to engage in conflict and mediate it and I hate doing
both! I’m good when I’m talking one-on-one with the person I have
conflict with but if I have conflict with more than one person and
they’re all in the same room, I’m going to hyperventilate and
pass out. I also over-analyze things and think with my heart and my
gut and going into a world meeting and being like “I feel in my
heart that this is the right thing to do and my gut is saying go for
it” is probably not the best way to respond when countries are at
war, fighting for peace, or trying to end world-hunger. Like I
wouldn’t know where to begin, how to divide the money, how to make
everyone equal. I have too many expectations of what this world
should be. I have too many things that need to be changed and how to
get from point A to point B is probably harder than it sounds.
What are you passionate about these
days?
Adventure! I am
so passionate about finding a new hobby, a new place to go, exploring
another part of town. Being in NYC in the middle of the COVID crisis
has really showed me how much I’m missing out on the state that I
am in. Every weekend we’d see a movie or go to the city and it’s
like I am not doing that after COVID! Too many people and too much
risk! So now I kind of just want to hop in the car and explore the
rest of my state and see what’s out there because I know there’s
so much more to NY than a congested city.
What do you do to unwind and relax?
Writing is my
time to unwind and relax, but I probably shouldn’t have this as my
answer, right? Okay, fine. So besides
writing, I love to watch TV, play
board games or card games, play with my dog (Rusty), or sit on the
deck and read. I love to watch shows like Supernatural,
Reign, Resurrection: Ertugrul really
anything fantasy or with royalty. I love to play games like Monopoly,
Chess, and Trivial Pursuit. My favorite card game is 500-card Rummy
(please please look it up if you don’t know how to play it’s so
much fun!). Rusty loves to play fetch, cuddle, and belly rubs! My
current read is Midnight Sun!
How to find time to write as a parent?
I’m not a
parent yet but we
have discussed this and I’m just going to have to find time to
write when my kids are sleeping!
Describe yourself in 5 words or less!
Introverted,
Personable, Fun, Loving, Caring
When did you first consider yourself a
writer?
When I was 8
years old and wrote my first story about a girl going to the park
with her dogs. I wrote it on that yellow/manilla drawing paper and I
was at work with my mom (it was take-your-daughter-to-work day) and
she showed me how to make copies on the copy machine. Well, I copied
that book for everyone in
the bank that day and I have no idea where it is!
Do you have a favorite movie?
YES! Aladdin
and Beauty
and the Beast are my favorite
movies. I love Aladdin because
I like the songs and I like Beauty
and the Beast because (let’s face
it) the LIBRARY!!!! Who else fantasized about being Belle and
rummaging through the library?!
Which of your novels can you imagine
made into a movie?
I’m going to
stick with what’s currently published: The
Broken Daughter. Even my father
suggested I pitch it to Netflix! If only I knew someone who could
write a screenplay for me and not charge me an arm, leg, liver, and
my soul!
What literary pilgrimages have you gone
on?
None but I would
love for
some suggestions! Let’s do it!!
As a writer, what would you choose as
your mascot/avatar/spirit animal?
Sloth. Man, I
get so lazy sometimes! Especially after a long day at work. I’m
like a sloth walking into the house. I’ll literally go for a shower
and go to bed!